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Fetish Protocol refers to a just as varied group, which includes spanko's, rubber enthusiasts, foot fetishists, etc That is not to say that if you are interested in one of those other things that I am against it. Rather, what I'm trying to say is that if you are interested in "Leather Protocol" or "Leather Codes of Conduct", you won't find it here. Nor will you find fetish protocols here. I live by SM protocols.

So that is what I know and that is what I will try to briefly touch on. Sometimes people get into a belief that they are learning proper SM protocols because they went to a Leather Protocol educational class. Then they come out feeling alienated or confused, because I know I have, having been to Old guard leather protocol BDSM parties over many years that were high protocol parties and yet I have never experienced a lot of the things that I heard at a Leather Protocol educational course.

Now, please try and remember that this is not to be considered as all encompassing, or even as gospel. It is meant as a general guide to making sure that when you attend a BDSM play party or interact at a BDSM munch or with others that do WIITWD What it is that we doyou will at least have a little background and knowledge so you don't feel like a fool, out of place or that you're going to embarrass yourself.

I will also write from the Dominant's point of view, because that's what I am. I won't try to explain every point of view from every politically correct angle, but this can work for either male or female, Top or bottom.

And although there is a difference, I will use Top, Dominant and Master almost interchangeably, as well as submissive, bottom and slave, for purposes of this article. I will also use the male form for the Top and the female form for the bottom. Again, Adult gold hair medal video is strictly for the sake of the article and simplicity and is not to be mistaken for anyone thinking that I do not believe in or agree with any other types of situations.

And all of this information is My opinion and should not be mistaken for legal, religious or medical advice. Part of this material comes from other pages on this site, so you know it's not just deja vu! And the first question is, "How should I behave?

Well, like in most real life situations, try honesty, sincerity and courtesy as a good place to start. And be polite. BDSM is, by definition, about procedures and protocol. Although there are no written "SOP's" because as varied as the population is, is as varied as the protocols may bethere are several Old guard leather protocol that are standards for the community.

Read and be familiar with the rules of the party You attend. All play should be consensual. Normal scene etiquette is a must i. Do not touch another individual without first Old guard leather protocol permission. Do not touch another's toys or toy bags without first getting permission. Even if you have permission to touch it, ask again before swinging, Old guard leather protocol or popping it.

NEVER touch a collared person's collar! Before talking to anyone wearing a collar, try to find their Dominant first, and ask His Old guard leather protocol. Keep conversation, laughter and comments to a minimum in the play areas. Do not monopolize the equipment. Do NOT join a scene unless specifically asked to do so! Clean up after your scene. Honest, open and respectful negotiation is acceptable. You are expected to know that other people might ask you to play. There is Old guard leather protocol wide variety of play that is possible.

The person who asks is expected to be polite, and to respect the collar of anyone who is collared, or to respect the relationships of other couples or leather families. If you want to play with the person who asks, you are welcome to say, "Yes. If Old guard leather protocol ask someone to play, and they say, "No," you are expected to respect their wishes.

Safewords are considered part of normal scene etiquette. Not all participants are open with their families and Old guard leather protocol about their BDSM involvement, sexual orientation or personal fetishes, so information about other participants is not to be shared without the direct consent of the person in question.

Never take pictures without the consent of all parties involved. Do not mention proper names or describe a person in such a way that their identity may be determined, without consent of that person. Big bob mature pornstar pics fuck give out addresses of play parties except to your sponsored guests with the permission of the host.

Never give out e-mail addresses without consent of that person. Do not discuss "out" the alternative activities or preferences of participants to any person, organization or business not directly involved with the participant.

Who are you kidding! Besides for the above, there are many other rules of conduct or normal scene etiquette and behavior that will enhance your chances of being accepted. People that are usually Old guard leather protocol in the highest regard are not self-seeking. They are very approachable and will usually welcome questions, so long as they are not in "High Protocol" specific rules used between consenting couples that tend to exclude them from the crowd for a variety of reasons.

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Consider that any BDSM gathering may be a chance for people who may or may not practice protocols during "business hours" as a place where they can, so always be on your best behavior, regardless of your perception of the mood and atmosphere. Sometimes you might find that there are quirks or intricacies that you don't understand. Sometimes, people use varied protocols in dealing with their significant other.

Best friends might use Old guard leather protocol protocols with their respective submissive's and still go out together. Being the driver verses having a chauffeur. Chivalry verses chauvinism. Polite verses demanding. Micromanaging verses allowing plenty of leeway. Controlling her diet verses putting her in charge of Yours. Hand signals verses verbal commands.

Walking with her to your right and slightly behind you verses making her clear the path by walking out in front. Honorifics - The choice of what You want her to call You and other Dominants. From the online "Master" and those that have no business using the term to the person who has earned the title, "Master" for a skill or ability they have proved through the years, to "Sir" or whatever else You want to be called.

As many people as there are is as many different protocols that you may find. What's good for you and what you want to incorporate into your relationship is how You decide Your personal protocols.

No one has ever gotten mad at another person for being polite. If you say, "Sir" or "Ma'am" when you talk to other's, you're heading in Old guard leather protocol right direction. If you follow normal scene etiquette for SM when in an SM atmosphere, you will do just fine. If you are in a Leather atmosphere, find out what leather protocols are. If you are in a special interest or fetish environment, use their protocols. If it is inappropriate, someone will certainly tell you what protocol is being practiced.

But if you stick to SM events and use SM protocols, codes of conduct, rules of behavior or normal scene etiquette, you Old guard leather protocol do just fine. It can be confusing!


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